Since we are temporarily living in "town", we've been taking advantage and doing daily walks along West Cliff (a populated beach walk, but it has a locals vibe).
Before COVID, most people smiled as they passed or offered some sort of friendly gesture. Now, with mostly masked faces, it feels like no one is friendly...even if they're smiling from behind their mask.
Turns out, if you have a toddler in tow, it's a game changer.
For every single person we passed today, Zoë said, "Hi, I'm Zoë, what's your name?" Nine out of ten people nearly stopped in their tracks to say hello back and then, if they'd listen, Zoë would continue with:
"Do you know I have a birthday? I'll be three. This is my sister. Her name is Josephine. Do you know she has two teeth?"
I had two favorites from the day:
- A woman named Olga who was so delighted to be stopped to say hello. She prodded Zoë with lots of questions and we found out her middle name was Josephine. Turns out she also has a granddaughter named Zoë and our Zoë thought that was the coolest.
- At the end of our walk, Zoë was out of the stroller collecting rocks. She stopped two different women who patiently waited as Zoë went through her spiel. Then she told them she had found a rock just for them. They both graciously accepted and commented on how pretty the rock was and how much they would cherish it.
The last woman we spoke to held her newly gifted rock close to her heart and said, "It seems like our only hope right now is to chat with strangers. Thank you for stopping to say hello. You truly made my day."
I'm honored we could help.
